What exactly is Awakened Iron and Soul?

“You can’t be deeply connected to anyone if you’re disconnected from yourself.”

Honestly, it’s a space for guys who feel like something’s off but can’t quite put their finger on it.

A lot of men don’t even realize they’ve slipped into habits that numb them out or keep them checked out of their own life. They think everything’s “fine,” so they don’t see a reason to talk — but they also know they’re not living the life they actually want.

Here, we slow down enough to look at what’s really going on under the hood.

We talk, we dig a bit, and you start seeing the patterns you didn’t even know were steering the ship.

No pressure. No judgment. Just real conversations, practical tools, and finally feeling like you’re back in the driver’s seat of your own life.

How is this different from traditional coaching?

“I have not met a man yet who hasn’t tried a coping mechanism or a way to escape in life I haven’t tried.”

I don’t hand you a “10-step plan”.

You and I walk your path together.

You bring your truth. I bring my life experiences, my questions, my tools to help you remember who you are and help you get what you want.

The work is co-created — not dictated.

Who is this for?

Men who:

• Are Divorced Fathers

• Pilots struggling with career burnout

• Struggling with marital connection

• Feel directionless or numb

• Carry shame, guilt, anger, or buried trauma

• Are burnt out, stuck, or disconnected from their purpose

• Want to rebuild confidence, relationships, or inner strength

• Are ready to stop running and start becoming

If you’re reading this and thinking, “Damn… that might be me,” then it’s probably for you.

Do I have to be spiritual or religious?

Nope.

This isn’t tied to any religion, system, or belief structure.

You bring your worldview — we build from there.

What happens in a session?

“I have been to several therapists in my life and one thing I noticed was how much I disliked feeling like I had to check off items on their list or program.”

You show up exactly as you are. We move at your pace.

I ask powerful questions, reflect what I see, and help you dig to the roots of what’s actually going on.

Some sessions are deep. Some are fiery. Some are messy.

All of them are real.

How do sessions help?

You gain:

• Support from someone who understands what you’re going through because I have been to hell and back.

• Healthy avenues to deal with life stresses

• Clarity about who you are and what you want

• Emotional grounding and the ability to handle chaos

• Courage to stop hiding and start leading

• A connection to your intuition (not as a replacement — but to help you trust it again)

• Tools to apply in real life, not just when you’re on the call

Is this confidential?

Absolutely.

What you say stays between us — no judgment, no leaking, no shame.

I am not required to report to any boards or panels of my work.

I will not sell your information!

*Disclaimer- If you make any statements of self-harm or harming others, then we will take the proper steps to get you the professional help you need.

How long does it take to see results?

This work depends on the effort you put into the sessions.

Most men feel a shift in the first session.

Deep change — the kind that rewires your identity — grows over weeks and months of showing up.

Do you work with men dealing with addiction, betrayal, or trauma?

Yes.

I’ve been through all of it.

This work hits those layers head-on — safely, honestly, no judgement and without sugar-coating it.

*Disclaimer- If I feel the work you need is outside of my scope of expertise, I will walk beside you while you/I find a provider to help you get the level of help you need.

Is this therapy?

No.

I’m not a licensed therapist or certified councilor.

I’m a guide, a fellow traveler, someone who has been to hell and back. I have done the inner work myself.

If you need therapy in addition to this, I’ll tell you straight.

What’s the investment?

“You’re not investing in me. You’re investing in keeping the things that matter most from collapsing. Your marriage, your career, your purpose, your soul. If this work protects even one of those—what’s that worth?”

The complimentary consultation phone call is where we discover the scope of the help you are requesting.

Packages vary based on frequency.

If we’re a good fit, we’ll build something that serves you — not drains you.

How Do I Start?

Simple:

Click “Let’s Do This!” and we’ll feel out whether this work is right for you.

No pressure, no selling, no BS.